Thanks for tuning in to the Real Women Chronicles podcast. I am your international certified life coach, T. Audra Taylor. The sole purpose of this podcast is to get you from where you are now to where you want to be.
Yes, it's time to break chains and to get unstuck. Thanks again for joining in. Let's begin. Happy Wednesday, ladies and gentlemen.
It is your host certified life coach T. Audra Taylor back again, another Wednesday with another podcast. Let me start this podcast off by just thinking all of my listeners, those who have reached out, even those who don't reach out, I see the downloads growing and I am extremely humbled by all the attention that this podcast is getting because I just have a strong passion for the topics that I talk about and just to know that people are in tune and it's really helping people is all I'm here to do, y'all. That's all I'm here to do.
So thank you guys for continuing to tune in and listen to me go off every single Wednesday. I truly love you, even if I haven't met you. I love you and I just pray that this podcast tonight will be yet again, another podcast that will motivate you. Well, it's night for me.
I'm not sure if it's day or night for you, but it's night for me. So I'm going to jump right into this week's podcast and it was weird kind of because when I was manifesting the podcast topic and really getting into with the spirit, God gave me two words and those two words were choose you. And I had to understand something about this podcast. I had to understand that this podcast, it isn't for everybody this week.
Okay. This is for a specific group of people. Okay. I chose this particular title because I was led to and that tells me that this is somebody out there that needs it.
Even if it's one person, there's somebody out there that needs to hear this topic. So I'm going to jump right into it. Listen, there comes a time in our life where we come to a breaking point. There's somebody listening to this podcast right now that is at their breaking point.
Their piece right now is that steak? And mental and physical health is that steak? Maybe even their love for self is at stake right now. And this podcast is going to break chains.
I declare in the name of Jesus for everything that's trying to keep you and bondage, everything that's trying to take your focus off of you and bettering you and getting to that place of peace and joy and happiness. Everything that's trying to come and disrupt disrupt your peace. I bind it in the name of Jesus because I understand that at times there comes a point in our lives where we find ourselves in difficult situations and we're faced with difficult decisions. Okay.
And that's each and every one of us. We have to evaluate our circle at times. We have to really take a look at the person or persons that were holding close to us and we have to come to some difficult decisions. Each and every one of us hits this place in our lives.
See, the decision that often many of us have to make is that we have to make the decision to stay in a place or stay with someone who is hindering our growth, who's hindering our mindset, our peace, our happiness, or even like I said, our love for ourselves. We have to, we have to determine whether we're going to stay in this place or whether we're going to choose us. Literally there are circumstances that arise in our lives where we're forced to choose between us and someone else because that someone else doesn't allow us to be who we are, that someone else doesn't allow us to flourish and God's purpose for our lives. So now we have to choose.
Some people require us to sacrifice too much of ourselves to be with them. Some people push us up against the wall and they force us to choose between them and us. These are the people who come into your lives. They require all your attention so much so that you have none to give to yourself.
They require you to change things about yourself. They require you to act a certain way and more than anything. They bring nothing but unhappiness into your life. These are those people and only those people are people that we are deeply in love with.
Let's be honest. Most of these people are not the people that we meet in the early stages. It's after time and spent maybe years spent with an individual and now they're just depleting you. Okay, wasn't like that before but now they are depleting you and now you have to make a decision.
You have to make the difficult decision whether to cut them off in order to save yourself. I think too often we look for our tormentor to save us. But remember they're not there to save us. They're there to hinder us.
If a person is coming into your life and they're bringing more headache than peace, they are there to hinder you. If the bad times are outweighing the good times, they are there to hinder you. So now I ask the question of who are you willing to choose? Are you willing to choose yourself and let go of that person who's holding you back?
Who makes you feel low? Who makes you feel like you're not good enough? Who treats you bad? Who's toxic in your life?
Are you willing to choose you? And the reason why I feel the need to reiterate this, these two terms choose you is because I think many times we don't understand that's the decision we're being faced with when we're involving ourselves in relationships that are hurting us. Every time you go back into that situation, you're choosing them over you. You're choosing their love over your peace of mind and your happiness.
And sure it may feel good for a minute. But we all know in toxic situations that good feeling is far and few in between. This is why you have to determine who needs to be cut off. That needs to be cut off in your life because it's literally draining your air supply.
But I'm going to be honest, not all people need to be cut off. Okay? But there are a few. Okay?
That require too much. They require so much that it's no room for you. They require so much of your emotional energy that by the time you're done dealing with them, you have no emotional energy to pick yourself up. And this is what I mean by it's time to make a choice.
I don't know who this message is for. But I feel it strong in my spirit. This particular message is for someone that is listening. If you can just do me a favor, shoot me an email and say, Amen.
This this podcast was for me. I need to know because I feel it strong. I know this is for someone. Someone is at their breaking point.
And I am here as God's just allowing the Holy Spirit to speak through me and let you know that it's time. It's time to make that decision. It's time to determine who you're going to choose. Okay?
There are people that will force you into this decision. And one thing you always have to remember is that what joy could you truly find in gaining someone's love yet losing the love for yourself? And I'll repeat that so that you get it and that it seeps in your soul. What joy is it to gain a person, to gain their attention and their love and all these things you think you need when you are the sacrificial lamb to gaining that.
You have to sacrifice yourself to gain this person's love. What benefit does that have in your life? That's the question I want you to think about this week. And I pray that you will find the answer.
Okay? Listen, y'all, as always, I keep it short and sweet until the point and I'm loving the fact that you guys love the fact that I keep it short and sweet. I do read the emails and the messages that I get and I see that a lot of people just like it straightforward to the point. So I try to keep these podcasts to the point.
So I hope that someone was motivated by today's message. I already know that someone got this message. Someone needed this message because I follow God's order when it comes to these topics, y'all. That's all I do.
I'm just a vessel and I allow him to use me. Listen, if you are in need of coaching, I am your virtual coach. I can coach people all across the globe and different time zones. So if you need life coaching, relationship coaching, shoot me an email.
My email is TNTgroveProject at gmail.com. I will also leave my email address and the bio as well as my Instagram account. So follow your girl in IG. Listen, let's close out in prayer as we always do, Father God.
We just thank you for allowing us to come together another week. Thank you for the word that you gave me to motivate my listeners, Father God. I pray that this particular podcast will break chains in the lives of those who truly, truly need the message, Father God. I thank you for all of my listeners.
I pray that nothing but good things come into their lives and I pray against any attack of the enemy over their lives, Father God. I pray against it and I bind it in the name of Jesus. In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Hey, thank you guys for joining in another week. I truly love y'all. Stay tuned in next Wednesday. We'll have a new topic.
Love y'all. Bye bye.