Ep.48: Beyond Survival Mode: How to Stop Playing Small and Start Living Big with Debbie Weiss

What happens when you spend your whole life taking care of others, and suddenly realize you’ve lost yourself in the process? In this powerful episode, we sit down with Debbie R. Weiss, bestselling author, entrepreneur, and inspirational speaker, who shares how she spent decades as a family caregiver—first to her father, then to her son with autism, and later to her husband battling mental illness and cancer. At 50, she had an epiphany: if she didn’t start prioritizing herself, she’d keep putting her own life on hold.Debbie opens up about her journey of shifting from a victim mentality to taking ownership of her life, making small mindset shifts that led to massive transformation. We dive into breaking limiting beliefs, overcoming life’s toughest challenges, and chasing dreams—even when you’re not sure what they are yet. If you’ve ever felt stuck in your circumstances, this conversation will leave you inspired and ready to take action. Episode Highlights:[0:02] – Meet Debbie R. Weiss: Author, speaker, and lifelong caregiver.[2:28] – Becoming a caregiver at 17: navigating life after her father’s stroke.[5:41] – Running a business while balancing caregiving and family responsibilities.[9:39] – The devastating moment when her husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer.[12:12] – Breaking free from the victim mentality and taking responsibility.[17:43] – The mindset shift that finally led to lasting weight loss.[24:55] – How small, consistent actions can transform your life.[31:16] – What Debbie’s life looks like now: embracing new possibilities.[38:35] – The power of saying yes and how it led her to writing. [41:22] – Debbie’s best advice for women who feel stuck in their circumstances. Resources:Debbie Weiss’s Website: https://www.debbierweiss.com Make sure to visit the “Resources” page on our website www.insightsfromthecouch.org to download the worksheet and take ways that accompany each episode. This is hugely important as we are now creating a download that is unique to each episode and working hard to create an email list to support our programming offerings moving forward.Ever stayed quiet to keep the peace and felt yourself disappear? The Cost of Quiet is for anyone who avoids conflict and pays the price. Reclaim your voice, strengthen your relationships, and experience real peace. Order your copy and join the movement: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book🎙️ Love the podcast? Come talk about episodes with us inside The Midlife Chat. It’s a free, private community just for women at midlife who want to keep these conversations going. We’ve created this space for real talk, fresh resources, and honest connection—where you can share ideas and resources, ask questions, and get support from women navigating the same season.  Come join us—we’d love to have you!👉 Join The Midlife Chat here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/795863256460970/Order The Cost of Quiet now! Colette’s new book, The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations that Create Secure, Lasting Love, launched February 3rd. Order your copy today: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-bookRecognized by FeedSpot:Top 60 Couples Therapy Podcasts | Top 100 U.S. Mental Health Podcasts | Top 100 Relaxation Podcasts