Ep 49 What's Really Holding You Back? with Madeleine de Hauke

In this episode, I sit down with executive coach and former medical doctor Madeleine de Hauke for an honest conversation about fear, confidence and what really stops talented people from reaching their potential.Madeleine shares the deeply personal story behind leaving medicine after qualifying as a doctor, revealing how fear and self-doubt shaped one of the biggest decisions of her career. Together, we explore how fear often disguises itself as perfectionism, overthinking, procrastination or "logical" decision making, preventing us from speaking up and becoming visible.We discuss why high-achieving leaders, particularly multilingual professionals and introverts, often struggle with confidence despite years of experience. We also look at the role of trauma, the nervous system, and why small, consistent steps are often more effective than trying to eliminate fear altogether.Other topics include:Why fear is a normal biological response rather than a weaknessThe connection between perfectionism, shame and self-worthSupporting multilingual leaders who work across languages and culturesWhy senior leaders still experience imposter feelings after promotionsThe importance of preparing for high-stakes conversationsHow coaching accelerates confidence and leadership developmentMadeleine's concept of "Owning Your Awesome"Why understanding yourself is the first step towards authentic leadershipWhether you're an introvert, a multilingual professional, or someone who's ever questioned whether you're good enough, this conversation offers practical insights and reassurance that confidence isn't about eliminating fear. It's about learning to work with it.