EP#499 - Understanding One Self's Purpose

Summary In this conversation, Dr. Vic Manzo interviews Gary Jordan about the importance of reconnecting with the source and discovering and utilizing one's natural skills. They discuss the development of the ego and the disconnection from the source that occurs as we grow up. They also explore the illusion of happiness and the never-ending search for external solutions. The conversation emphasizes the journey of self-discovery and the pain and resistance that come with self-reflection. They highlight the importance of teaching children to reconnect with their spirit and self and the joy of doing what comes naturally. Takeaways Reconnecting with the source and discovering and utilizing one's natural skills is essential for true fulfillment and satisfaction in life. The development of the ego and the disconnection from the source occur as we grow up and develop our identity. The pursuit of happiness as a goal is misguided, as happiness is an experience that comes and goes. Self-reflection and the journey of self-discovery can be challenging and painful, but they lead to greater connection and satisfaction. Teaching children to reconnect with their spirit and self is crucial for their overall well-being and fulfillment. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 00:31 Gary's Journey and Discovering Natural Skills 03:31 The Development of the Ego and Disconnecting from the Source 04:15 The Illusion of Happiness and the Never-Ending Search 06:04 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Reconnecting with the Soul 07:16 The Role of the Unconscious Mind in Creating True Change 08:11 The Limitations of External Solutions 09:24 The Pain of Self-Reflection and the Journey to Reconnection 10:22 The Resistance to Self-Reflection and the Fear of Pain 11:18 Waiting for Crisis to Initiate Change 12:19 The Disconnection from Spirit and the Importance of Reconnecting 13:17 The Development of the Ego and the Loss of Connection 14:12 The Pursuit of Happiness and the Experience of Pain 15:46 Happiness as an Experience, Not a Goal 16:14 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Finding Natural Skills 19:30 Teaching Children to Reconnect with Spirit and Self 20:00 The Joy of Doing What Comes Naturally 23:23 Gary's Work and How to Connect 25:42 Closing Remarks Who is Gary Jordan Ph.D.? Gary Jordan, Ph.D., has over 40 years of experience in clinical psychology, behavior assessment, individual development, and coaching. He earned his doctorate in clinical psychology from the California School of Professional Psychology-Berkely in 1980. Always fascinated by theories of types and styles, Gary found that none of the theories he studied integrated internal experience with observable behavior. From his doctoral thesis and throughout his years in private practice, he worked on creating practical and usable style theory based on perception. In 1983, he joined Lynda-Ross Vega and together they created Perceptual Style Theory. This revolutionary psychological assessment system provides answers for individuals to leverage their natural strengths and find more meaning and satisfaction in life. How to Connect with Gary? Website: https://www.yourtalentadvantage.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gary-jordan-ph-d-4475b011/