Ep 50: Conscious Sex: A Deep Dive with My Former Lover Kevin Hart

Not sure where to start with a conscious sex conversation? Naming your desires, communicating boundaries, asking a lover to get tested - you are not alone if you feel some resistance or fear around talking about these things with a partner. In today's episode, I invite Kevin Hart - my dear friend, former lover, and sex and intimacy coach - to talk about conscious sexuality. We discuss the role it played in our sexual relationship, why the RBDSM conversation is so powerful (and advice for how to have it!) and the beauty that comes from a fully conscious sexual experience. We get deep into: Kevin's journey from the tech world to becoming a sex and intimacy coach in Bali Noticing sexual energy between us and having our first conversation about being intimate with each other (and why I was nervous!) A deep dive into the RBDSM conversation so you can get more comfortable having it with a potential sexual partner (or a current partner!) Helpful tips for what to ask in a safe sex conversation and examples of what it might sound like A sexy little story from Kevin about when I made his jaw drop Why it might feel like a conscious sex conversation could ruin the mood (and why you should still have it!) Some advice for finding common ground with your partner around your individual desires And more!   Connect with Kevin: [email protected]   Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/