Ep 52: The Truth Kids Won’t Tell Their Parents (But Olivia Will)

“Sometimes what our kids need most isn’t a better answer… it’s just feeling understood.” --AngelaIn this episode, listeners will learn:How small, well-meaning parenting habits (like fixing or stepping in too quickly) can unintentionally disconnect us from our kidsWhat kids actually need when they’re upset and why listening often matters more than solvingThe subtle ways parents can cause kids to shut down without realizing itWhy giving kids space, while still being present, builds stronger trust and communication over timeIn this episode of Mama, Let’s Talk, I sit down with my 12-year-old daughter, Olivia, for a conversation that feels equal parts humbling, eye-opening, and honestly… a little risky. We talk about the things kids don’t usually say out loud to their parents, but wish they could. From feeling “babied” to wanting space instead of solutions, Olivia gives a real, unfiltered look into how kids experience us as moms.What stood out most to me wasn’t just what she said, but how simple it really is. Our kids aren’t asking for perfection. They’re not asking for the perfect response or the perfect parenting moment. They’re asking to feel heard, respected, and understood. This conversation reminded me that connection isn’t built in big speeches, it’s built in the quiet moments where we choose to listen a little longer and soften just enough to meet them where they are.Connect with Angela:InstagramPinterest PostsLet's ConnectGet Your Freebies HereShop Our JournalsThe Balanced Mama BlogMusic by Mood Maze