6: Why ADHD Perfectionism Is a Defense Mechanism

You're not a perfectionist because you have high standards. You're a perfectionist because your nervous system thinks it's keeping you safe. If you've been stuck, depleted, and further behind despite working so hard, this episode is for you. ADHD perfectionism is a defense mechanism rooted in fight-or-flight, and once you see it that way, you can actually start to change it. I'll walk you through where it comes from, what it's costing you, and how dropping it doesn't mean doing less. It means finally getting more done. 00:00 – ADHD Perfectionism as a Defense Mechanism 03:54 – Fear of Failure, Rejection Sensitivity, and Impossible Standards 10:09 – How ADHD Perfectionism Leads to Paralysis and Avoidance 16:10 – Self-Criticism, Low Self-Esteem, and the Need for Control 22:52 – How to Challenge ADHD Perfectionism and Nervous System Dysregulation Check out the show notes and other resources at https://jennafree.com/blog/adhd-perfectionism-defense-mechanism Let's stay connected! Ready to help your ADHD clients heal at the nervous system level? Join the waitlist for the ADHD Regulation Method certification launching in September. Want more thriving with ADHD? Come hang out with me on Instagram! Get out of paralysis, be more productive, and enjoy your life again! Join an upcoming group!