18. Desire, Pleasure & Healing: A Conversation with Dr. Emma Smith

In this powerful and deeply validating episode, Natty sits down with Dr. Emma Smith—licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, and trauma specialist—to talk about reclaiming desire, expanding beyond survival, and redefining what healing really looks like. Dr. Smith shares how her conservative upbringing and early career as a high school teacher led her to this profound work at the intersection of trauma and pleasure.Together, Natty and Emma unpack:Why traditional trauma therapy isn’t enoughThe myth of returning to “baseline”Arousal non-concordance and how it impacts women’s pleasureThe difference between wanting and likingWhy pleasure feels confronting for high-achieving womenHow solo sex practices can open the door to deeper embodimentUsing storytelling and alter-egos to unlock erotic expressionThe power of asking, “What do I like?”This episode is for every woman who has ever felt disconnected from her desire, pleasure, or body—and is ready to take up more space in her own life.🔗 Resources & Mentions:Dr. Emma Smith on InstagramDr. Smith’s Substack: Book mentioned: Come As You Are by Dr. Emily NagoskiBook mentioned: Pleasure Activism by adrienne maree brownLearn more about Natty’s private coaching: www.thefemininerebellion.comBook a connection call with Natty: https://calendly.com/thefemininrebellion/connection-call🔥 Loved this episode?Be sure to rate, review, and share with a sister who needs to hear this message. And don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss a dose of rebellion, pleasure, and power.