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EPISODE · May 8, 2026 · 29 MIN

Ep 61: How to Actually Change Your Self-Concept (So Your Relationships Change Too) | Law of Assumption

from F*CK Trauma Podcast · host Candice Tamara

Anxious attachment, self-concept work, manifestation, subconscious reprogramming and nervous system healing all go hand in hand… and in this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to actually change your self-concept so your relationships and reality can finally change too..If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people, avoidants, hot and cold behaviour, rejection, abandonment or relationships where you never fully feel chosen, this episode will help you understand WHY..I explain:what self-concept really ishow your beliefs and assumptions create your relationship patternswhy anxious attachment is an identity/statehow subconscious beliefs are formedwhy you keep repeating the same experiences in lovehow to identify your triggers and core beliefshow to start reprogramming your self-conceptwhy affirmations alone sometimes don’t workhow the nervous system impacts manifestation and relationshipswhy EFT tapping helps you feel safe being chosen, loved and secure.I also share my own journey from anxious attachment, chasing emotionally unavailable relationships and feeling unchosen… to becoming secure, loved, engaged and pregnant through changing my self-concept and nervous system..This episode will help you start shifting the identity that is creating your current reality so you can stop recreating painful relationship patterns and finally feel secure, chosen and deeply loved..My program ⁠⁠Create Your Secure Relationship⁠⁠⁠⁠ shows you exactly how to reprogram your self-concept and nervous system so you naturally attract and sustain the relationship & desires you actually want..Join here: ⁠⁠Create Your Secure Relationship⁠⁠Signature Program: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Free Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stop Sabotaging Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Series: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠7 Manifestation Mistakes⁠⁠⁠⁠.Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch on YoutubeWays to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you so much!

Anxious attachment, self-concept work, manifestation, subconscious reprogramming and nervous system healing all go hand in hand… and in this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to actually change your self-concept so your relationships and reality can finally change too..If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people, avoidants, hot and cold behaviour, rejection, abandonment or relationships where you never fully feel chosen, this episode will help you understand WHY..I explain:what self-concept really ishow your beliefs and assumptions create your relationship patternswhy anxious attachment is an identity/statehow subconscious beliefs are formedwhy you keep repeating the same experiences in lovehow to identify your triggers and core beliefshow to start reprogramming your self-conceptwhy affirmations alone sometimes don’t workhow the nervous system impacts manifestation and relationshipswhy EFT tapping helps you feel safe being chosen, loved and secure.I also share my own journey from anxious attachment, chasing emotionally unavailable relationships and feeling unchosen… to becoming secure, loved, engaged and pregnant through changing my self-concept and nervous system..This episode will help you start shifting the identity that is creating your current reality so you can stop recreating painful relationship patterns and finally feel secure, chosen and deeply loved..My program ⁠⁠Create Your Secure Relationship⁠⁠⁠⁠ shows you exactly how to reprogram your self-concept and nervous system so you naturally attract and sustain the relationship & desires you actually want..Join here: ⁠⁠Create Your Secure Relationship⁠⁠Signature Program: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Free Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stop Sabotaging Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Series: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠7 Manifestation Mistakes⁠⁠⁠⁠.Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch on YoutubeWays to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you so much!

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