EPISODE · Apr 13, 2025 · 12 MIN
EP 61 - Should You “Be the Bigger Person” When Someone’s Hurt You?
from From Lemons to Limoncello · host Lisa Marie DeSanto
Navigating relationships can be challenging, especially when it comes with dancing around hurtful behavior from other people. In this week’s episode, we talk about what to do when someone suggests that you be the “bigger person” when someone has hurt you, why they might be suggesting that you overlook the bad behavior in the first place, and exploring the difficult decisions and emotional labor involved in going no contact with someone — and managing the fallout that can impact the other relationships in your life.In this episode, we talk about:Setting boundaries in relationshipsRecognizing toxic behavior and its impactThe importance of self-care and mental healthThe tough choices that come with going no contactMisconceptions around what it means to be the bigger personSocietal pressures influencing our decisions to maintain peace at the expense of our well-beingThe importance of prioritizing our mental and emotional healthThe courage it takes to walk away from toxic relationshipsPractical advice on handling difficult conversationsThe emotional aftermath of ending harmful relationshipsTune in to this episode for a thoughtful discussion on protecting your peace and well-being. Whether you're struggling with a toxic family member, friend, or partner, this episode offers some valuable perspectives and actionable steps to help you navigate these challenging situations. Don't miss out on this empowering conversation about relationship advice, self-care, and mental health.This episode is a Sunday Shot: a short and sweet solo episode with a runtime of approximately 10 - 20 minutes. More About Lisa Marie:To learn more about Lisa Marie, get more content, or schedule a one-on-one coaching session, visit her website at: www.lisamarieconnections.com or her contact page, at: www.lisamarieconnections.com/connectFollow Lisa Marie on Instagram, TikTok, or YouTube: https://linktr.ee/lisamarieconnectionsAFTER THE EPISODE:Love the podcast?Please rate the show and leave a review!Know someone who would benefit from hearing this episode?Please consider sharing it with them!PLEASE NOTE: The "From Lemons to Limoncello" podcast and content posted by Lisa Marie DeSanto is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this website, the podcast, linked to content, or from coaching sessions is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.
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Navigating relationships can be challenging, especially when it comes with dancing around hurtful behavior from other people. In this week’s episode, we talk about what to do when someone suggests that you be the “bigger person” when someone has hurt you, why they might be suggesting that you overlook the bad behavior in the first place, and exploring the difficult decisions and emotional labor involved in going no contact with someone — and managing the fallout that can impact the other relationships in your life.In this episode, we talk about:Setting boundaries in relationshipsRecognizing toxic behavior and its impactThe importance of self-care and mental healthThe tough choices that come with going no contactMisconceptions around what it means to be the bigger personSocietal pressures influencing our decisions to maintain peace at the expense of our well-beingThe importance of prioritizing our mental and emotional healthThe courage it takes to walk away from toxic relationshipsPractical advice on handling difficult conversationsThe emotional aftermath of ending harmful relationshipsTune in to this episode for a thoughtful discussion on protecting your peace and well-being. Whether you're struggling with a toxic family member, friend, or partner, this episode offers some valuable perspectives and actionable steps to help you navigate these challenging situations. Don't miss out on this empowering conversation about relationship advice, self-care, and mental health.This episode is a Sunday Shot: a short and sweet solo episode with a runtime of approximately 10 - 20 minutes. More About Lisa Marie:To learn more about Lisa Marie, get more content, or schedule a one-on-one coaching session, visit her website at: www.lisamarieconnections.com or her contact page, at: www.lisamarieconnections.com/connectFollow Lisa Marie on Instagram, TikTok, or YouTube: https://linktr.ee/lisamarieconnectionsAFTER THE EPISODE:Love the podcast?Please rate the show and leave a review!Know someone who would benefit from hearing this episode?Please consider sharing it with them!PLEASE NOTE: The "From Lemons to Limoncello" podcast and content posted by Lisa Marie DeSanto is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this website, the podcast, linked to content, or from coaching sessions is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.
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