EPISODE · Sep 12, 2022 · 25 MIN
Ep 65: Doing the Work Should Hurt: What Real Change Feels Like
from Unf*ck Your Relationships · host Michelle Panning
When we think about transformation, we tend to think about the beauty at the end of it, not the pain we go through on the way. This just in: doing the work isn't all pretty self-care rituals and kind affirmations and relying on a program's curriculum to do all the changing for you. It's called doing the work; it requires your active participation. And I'm not going to lie to you, all right? It's gonna feel like you're fucking dying. Why? Because part of you is. You're a caterpillar in its cocoon, babe. And before you can become the beautiful butterfly you're meant to be, you've gotta go through a phase of dissolving your old identity so you can transform yourself into someone new. Quantum Love Codes Masterclass: https://michellepanning.thrivecart.com/quantum-love-codes-masterclass/ Self Trust Vibes Masterclass: https://michellepanning.thrivecart.com/self-trust-vibes/ The Connected Woman: https://michellepanning.com/the-connected-woman 3-month private 1:1 mentoring: https://michellepanning.com/the-intimate-woman CONNECT WITH MICHELLE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/michellepanning Website: http://www.michellepanning.com
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When we think about transformation, we tend to think about the beauty at the end of it, not the pain we go through on the way. This just in: doing the work isn't all pretty self-care rituals and kind affirmations and relying on a program's curriculum to do all the changing for you. It's called doing the work; it requires your active participation. And I'm not going to lie to you, all right? It's gonna feel like you're fucking dying. Why? Because part of you is. You're a caterpillar in its cocoon, babe. And before you can become the beautiful butterfly you're meant to be, you've gotta go through a phase of dissolving your old identity so you can transform yourself into someone new. Quantum Love Codes Masterclass: https://michellepanning.thrivecart.com/quantum-love-codes-masterclass/ Self Trust Vibes Masterclass: https://michellepanning.thrivecart.com/self-trust-vibes/ The Connected Woman: https://michellepanning.com/the-connected-woman 3-month private 1:1 mentoring: https://michellepanning.com/the-intimate-woman CONNECT WITH MICHELLE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/michellepanning Website: http://www.michellepanning.com
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