EPISODE · Dec 16, 2025 · 8 MIN
Ep. 66 Grieving with the Spirit of Christmas | Cynthia Ruchti
from Living the Grace Life · host Jennifer Sakata
Christmas isn’t all romance movies or bright paper packages tied up with string. For many, December ushers in the reality of a baby in the NICU, a dying loved one, an empty chair at the table, or a pending divorce—leaving people crushed and brokenhearted. Grief has a way of rising to the surface during the holidays, even when we don’t invite it. What if, instead of trying to push past these deep pools of pain, we learned to make sacred space for them? What if grieving with the Spirit of Christmas looks like entrusting our sorrow to the Holy Spirit—the Comforter who meets us where we are? It's the third week of Advent, and we are back with Cynthia Ruchti, Author of the Advent devotional, The Spirit of Christmas. In this tender and hope-filled episode, we explore: The quiet but deep pool of pain many carry during the holiday season The Holy Spirit's role as our Comforter—present, gentle, attentive How ordinary acts, like making your bed, can become grace-filled steps in your grieving and healing Why grace upon grace is God's steady gift for those navigating grief at Christmastime If you’re aching or hurting this Christmas, there is grace for that—real, sustaining grace through the Holy Spirit. Listen in and be reminded that the Spirit brings what Jesus came to bring: God’s generosity, His nearness, and His unending grace upon grace. Prayer for Grieving with the Spirit: " Spirit of God, thank you for not leaving Mary or us alone. As we carry out the assignments and the adventures, and even the griefs into which you have invited us, soften our hearts to be eager with our yes to you. And to lean into the comfort that you have provided. Amen." -Cynthia Ruchti A Pondering for Reflection: "The Holy Spirit is Emmanuel who never leaves us." -Cynthia Ruchti. What difference does this truth make in your grieving? Resources: 🎄Cynthia's The Roles of the Holy Spirit downloadable 🎄Jennifer's Make Room for the Quieter Voices of Christmas downloadable 🎄An excerpt from Cynthia's devotional The Spirit of Christmas 🎄Cynthia's book, The Spirit of Christmas 🎶 Cynthia's go-to grace song: Worthy of It All by CeCe Winans Connect with Cynthia Ruchti: Website: cynthiaruchti.com Instagram: cynthiaruchtiauthor Facebook: cynthiaruchti Related Episodes: Ep. 65 Pausing with the Spirit of Christmas | Cynthia Ruchti Ep. 64 Living with a Yes Heart at Christmas | Cynthia Ruchti Ep. 63 Discovering the Spirit of Christmas | Cynthia Ruchti Ep. 22 Make Room for the Quieter Voices of Christmas | Jennifer Sakata Stay Connected with Jennifer Sakata: 🎁 My FREE gift to you: Make Room for the Quieter Voices of Christmas 📩 Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content & episode updates ⭐ If this episode resonated with you, leave a review and share it with a friend!
What this episode covers
Many people carry hidden grief during the Christmas season, but the Holy Spirit meets us with comfort, presence, and grace. In this episode with Author Cynthia Ruchti, we explore what it means to begin grieving with the Spirit and entrusting our sorrow to God’s tender care.
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