EP 67: Pleasure Over Pressure

We're back for another week of So What Now? and this episode? Yeah… it goes there.Carla kicks things off with a life update, sharing Plasm's progress in school, while Dex is on the complete opposite vibe—outside, having a time, and leaning into joy. From there, things take a turn as Carla recounts her experience at a sex club (yes, we had questions), and somehow it opens the door to a bigger conversation: women, pleasure, and owning what feels goodwithout guilt. In honor of Women's Month, we're talking role play, toys, and the importance of actually knowing what you like. But it's not just about pleasure—it's also about the hard stuff. This week's "Woman of the Week" is for the ones who walked away from relationships that weren't toxic… just not right. Because let's be real, those are the hardest to leave. So we had to ask: were you actually happy… or just comfortable? Because those two are not the same. And of course, we get into some wild side conversations—from studies linking lack of sex to weight gain (do what you will with that info), to a surprising confession from Tim Gunn, to the story of a woman falling in love with an AI chatbot. Yeah… it's one of those episodes. Press play and let's talk about it.   CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: CARLA WILMARIS | DEX 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesowhatnowpod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US: https://www.sowhatnowpod.com/   Rate, Review & Follow UsIf you laughed, felt seen, or screamed "same," take 30 seconds to rate and review the show. ⭐ Scroll to the bottom of our Apple Podcasts page ⭐ Tap to rate 5 stars ⭐ Hit "Write a Review" and tell us what you loved most Your support keeps this going—and we read every word.