Ep. 68 Finding Common Ground in Complex Situations with Justin Jones-Fosu

On The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air when Will goes to confront his birth father is emotional and beautiful. And in this episode of the podcast, Justin Jones-Fosu and Jenn Whitmer connect this episode not only to Justin’s journey, but also you as a leader.   The big idea Justin brings from his experience with his father is the power of conversation over a confrontation.   And he gives us his five pillars of respectful disagreement. Not only how they saved him from more anger and heartache, but also how you can use these pillars as a leader when you face disagreements with and among your colleagues (or really any humans!)   This conversation was beautiful and powerful. I hope it helps you lead with an open heart and welcome respectful disagreement in your workplace. Because when you do, you’ll discover how healed relationships and genuine curiosity unlock new levels of productivity, engagement, and joy.   Here’s what we talked about: 03:11 Five pillars to help you start respectfully disagreeing 06:31 The Tortoise Principle 09:17 Turning a confrontation into a conversation 14:30 Four powerful questions for understanding differences 20:50 The power of three 24:08 Practice asking and listening deeply   Links/ Resources: Grab Justin’s latest book, I Respectfully Disagree. What happened to you? by Oprah Winfrey and Bruce D. Perry Clip of Fresh Prince of Bel-Air   The Free 99 Step: Connect with Jenn on Instagram and LinkedIn and join the conversation.   Joyosity Explorer Map will guide you to understanding the deeper purpose and story you tell yourself about your work. Joy is linked to purpose and productivity increases by 20% or more when you directly link your purpose to your work.   Ready to Make a Plan: Joyosity Jumpstart If you’re ready to stop leading from survival mode and lead with connection and joy, the Joyosity™ Jumpstart Session is for you. Clarify what you want, where you are, and what’s getting in the way so you can make a real plan. Starting the Journey: Enneagram Navigator Walk through the process to identify your Enneagram type — accurately! But then also know what does that mean in your every day life. Ready to Dive In: 1:1 Joyosity Leadership Intensive http://jennwhitmer.com/intensive Work on your leadership stories, mindset, values, and alignment with Jenn 1:1 when it fits your schedule. Five spots available in November and December 2024.