EP 72: Solo Maxing Won't Fix This

This week, Carla and Dex unpack what it means to stop living for "the next thing" and start finding joy in the life that's already unfolding. From unexpected life updates and health check-ins to parenting during summer break, solo living, AI, and the internet's latest obsession with "solo maxing," this conversation is a reminder that fulfillment isn't always waiting somewhere in the future. They also dive into the financial realities of adulthood, why making a "smaller" decision isn't always a step backward, the invisible cost of parenting, and the importance of maximizing whatever season you're currently in instead of constantly rushing toward another one. As always, it's honest, funny, a little chaotic, and full of the conversations we'd probably be having off-camera anyway. In This Episode Why "solo maxing" is really about building a life you genuinely enjoy. The pressure to always chase the next milestone. Health, aging, and making smarter choices before life forces you to. Why downsizing isn't always a setback. The emotional and financial realities of parenting during summer break. Should adult children have their parents' location? AI, technology, and whether we're becoming too dependent on it. Finding joy in simple experiences instead of constantly chasing bigger ones. Music, pop culture, and the week's funniest moments. Takeaway Your happiness doesn't have to wait for a relationship, a new job, more money, or whatever comes next. CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: CARLA WILMARIS | DEX 📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thesowhatnowpodcast/ 📱TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesowhatnowpod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US: https://www.sowhatnowpod.com/   Rate, Review & Follow UsIf you laughed, felt seen, or screamed "same," take 30 seconds to rate and review the show. ⭐ Scroll to the bottom of our Apple Podcasts page ⭐ Tap to rate 5 stars ⭐ Hit "Write a Review" and tell us what you loved most Your support keeps this going—and we read every word.