EP 8. El Amor Dice No: Self-Advocacy, Divorce, and Choosing Yourself (In Work & in Life)

In this vulnerable life-update episode, Evie opens up about one of the most difficult decisions she’s ever made: ending her marriage. Through her story, she explores the deeper meaning of self-advocacy — not just at work, but in relationships, family dynamics, and personal identity.Evie shares how choosing herself, even when it was painful, became the most profound act of self-love she’s ever practiced. She also reflects on healing generational narratives, navigating fear, receiving support, and holding boundaries in both professional and personal spaces.This episode is for anyone experiencing transition, heartbreak, or the internal conflict of honoring your truth when others don’t understand it.⏱ Episode Timestamps00:05 — Why this life update took six months to record01:28 — The decision to end her marriage 03:50 — The moment her ex validated her self-advocacy05:34 — Choosing yourself even when it impacts others07:08 — The unexpected wisdom from her mom10:15 — Navigating shame, doubt, and cultural expectations14:12 — Advocating for yourself at work during burnout19:42 — Learning to set boundaries without guilt24:12 — “El amor dice no”: Why love sometimes means saying no26:55 — A message for women entering a new chapterKeywords: self-advocacy, Latina empowerment, divorce healing, boundaries, self-worth journey, women choosing themselvesFor more mindset support and negotiation confidence, join the Self-Worth Accelerator waitlist.Free Salary Negotiation TrainingJoin me where I teach you the exact strategy behind my clients negotiating and average of $32K in salary increases .👉 Sign up hereLet's Work TogetherIf you want a resume that positions you for higher-paying roles, apply for Evie’s 1:1 Resume Intensive.Until next time amigas ✨Rate this PodcastIf you're loving this content, please give this podcast a 5 star rating and leave your loving review. We’d love to hear form you!Join the Waitlist Join the Self-Worth Accelerator waitlist for early access to Evie’s signature 12-month coaching program. Join Here.Subscribe to our Newsletter 💌Download your FREE Salary Negotiation Checklist today! Let’s get that bag amiga! Free Salary Negotiations Checklist Here.Follow Me on SocialsIG: @LaMalaMujerBlogLinkedIn: Evie Prete LinkedInWebsite: La Mala Mujer