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EPISODE · May 10, 2025 · 21 MIN

Ep 8 – Kidnapped by the State: Abandoned, Humiliated, and Erased

from Three Times A Victim – Living Under the Shadow of Toxic Shame · host Bruce Whealton

💥 “The truth was all I had—but it wasn’t enough.”After surviving a brutal assault, Bruce is imprisoned—without conviction, without support, and without justice. In this heartbreaking chapter of Three Times A Victim, he describes being “kidnapped by the state,” stripped of dignity, and left to suffer in silence.🔒 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:✔️ Pre-trial incarceration treated as guilt✔️ The suicide smock as a symbol of shame and erasure✔️ Family betrayal—refusing to pay bail, offer help, or believe him✔️ Media distortion—portraying the perpetrator as a “girl” and Bruce as a monster✔️ Public defender failure—no defense, just pressure to plead✔️ Release into homelessness—seven months locked up, then abandoned to the streets✔️ A glimmer of kindness from a woman offering hope, shadowed by shame and trauma✔️ The pain of familial gaslighting by omission—no anger, no concern, just silence💭 “If your own family won’t stand by you—who will?”🎧 This episode reveals the crushing loneliness of being punished not just by the system—but by those who should have protected you.—📘 Read the full memoir on Amazon:bit.ly/ThreeTimesAVictimMemoir🌐 Author’s Website:bit.ly/ThreeTimesAVictimBook🎧 YouTube Playlist:bit.ly/ThreeTimesPodcast—Tags:#ThreeTimesAVictim #WrongfulImprisonment #FalseAccusation #ToxicShame #VictimNotCriminal #JusticeFailed #PublicDefenderFailure #Gaslighting #SurvivorStory #NarrativeTherapy #MentalHealthAwareness #ScapegoatSurvivor #CPTSDRecovery

💥 “The truth was all I had—but it wasn’t enough.”After surviving a brutal assault, Bruce is imprisoned—without conviction, without support, and without justice. In this heartbreaking chapter of Three Times A Victim, he describes being “kidnapped by the state,” stripped of dignity, and left to suffer in silence.🔒 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:✔️ Pre-trial incarceration treated as guilt✔️ The suicide smock as a symbol of shame and erasure✔️ Family betrayal—refusing to pay bail, offer help, or believe him✔️ Media distortion—portraying the perpetrator as a “girl” and Bruce as a monster✔️ Public defender failure—no defense, just pressure to plead✔️ Release into homelessness—seven months locked up, then abandoned to the streets✔️ A glimmer of kindness from a woman offering hope, shadowed by shame and trauma✔️ The pain of familial gaslighting by omission—no anger, no concern, just silence💭 “If your own family won’t stand by you—who will?”🎧 This episode reveals the crushing loneliness of being punished not just by the system—but by those who should have protected you.—📘 Read the full memoir on Amazon:bit.ly/ThreeTimesAVictimMemoir🌐 Author’s Website:bit.ly/ThreeTimesAVictimBook🎧 YouTube Playlist:bit.ly/ThreeTimesPodcast—Tags:#ThreeTimesAVictim #WrongfulImprisonment #FalseAccusation #ToxicShame #VictimNotCriminal #JusticeFailed #PublicDefenderFailure #Gaslighting #SurvivorStory #NarrativeTherapy #MentalHealthAwareness #ScapegoatSurvivor #CPTSDRecovery

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