EP 8: They Didn’t Love You — They Loved Your Usefulness

Have you ever had that moment…where you realized someone didn’t actually love you?Not really.They loved what you gave.Your loyalty. Your support. Your presence.The version of you that made their life easier. But the moment you became complicated…emotional… inconvenient…they disappeared.In this episode, Christy opens up about a kind of heartbreak that doesn’t just hurt — it changes you.From losing a best friend she thought would be in her life forever…to navigating rejection, judgment, and loneliness in spaces that were supposed to feel safe…this is a raw look at what betrayal actually does beneath the surface.Because some pain doesn’t just break your heart.It rewires how you trust.How you love.And how close you’re willing to let people get.But this isn’t just about friendship.It’s about the deeper realization that not everyone knows how to love a person…only what that person provides.And how that truth can quietly shape your identity without you even realizing it.This episode also goes deeper into the tension between people’s judgment and God’s actual heart —and the moment everything shifts when you experience love that isn’t conditional, performative, or earned.Because sometimes…the most dangerous lie you can believeis that people’s rejection reflects how God sees you.If you’ve ever been the strong one…the dependable one…the one who showed up for everyone else…and then found yourself alone when you needed the same in return—this conversation will hit closer than you expect.And maybe…it will help you separatewho truly loves you—from who only loved what you gave.