Thanks for tuning in to the Real Women Chronicles podcast. I am your international certified life coach, T. Audra Taylor. The sole purpose of this podcast is to get you from where you are now to where you want to be.
Yes, it's time to break chains and to get unstuck. Thanks again for joining in. Let's begin. Hello, and thank you guys for joining me yet again.
Another week of the Real Women Chronicles podcast. I am your host, coach T, certified life and relationship coach. Many of you guys who have listened to me week after week already know the drill and the spill, honey. I want to jump right into today's podcast.
I just want to talk a little bit about just being comfortable with failing, for lack of better words. The reason why I say failing is because many of us look at a relationship ending as failure. We look at that dream that we told everybody we were going to accomplish. We look at that as failure.
We look at issues that we've had within our jobs or our household with our kids and just being a parent as failing. That's why I say lack of better words because failure has such a negative condensation to it when we talk about failure. Let's be honest here. Life involves failure.
I haven't met a person yet who has not failed at something. Many times that failure often is a free way to success. If we're too blinded by the enemy, we get stuck on the road of failure and we stop driving and we don't realize that the next stop is where success lies. But yet, still we get out of the car.
As soon as we hit that town called failure, we get out of the car. We're done. We're tired of driving. We're tired of figuring it out.
We're tired of trying and trying and things not working out. But I'm here to tell you that right before you get to success, you normally hit some of your biggest hurdles, some of your biggest failures right before what you've been praying for comes into fruition. Listen, God did not necessarily promise that everything you wanted was going to want you back. He didn't promise that every single relationship that you got into and you thought this was the one was going to be successful.
But what he did promises that he will be there through it all and ultimately no good thing will he withhold from us. So we have to learn to get comfortable with failure. But as we become comfortable with failure, we become even more comfortable with being optimistic about the future. And knowing that right around the corner, something big is coming our way.
The issue is too many of us get stuck. We get stuck at that breakup. We get stuck at the divorce. We get stuck being upset about that job that unfairly terminated you.
We get stuck there. And once we get stuck there, nothing else good comes our way. We stop looking for good opportunities. We stop expecting to attract good mates into our lives.
And we just get stuck. I challenge you today not to get stuck. I challenge you today that no matter what has happened on this road, that many of us have to travel at one point in time in our lives, this road of failure, I challenge you to keep pressing forward. This failed opportunity was necessary.
That failed relationship was necessary. It was necessary to push you into where God wants you to be. Sometimes we think that we've lost something or somebody that was meant for us. That opportunity was meant for you and you lost it.
That man or woman was meant for you and you lost it. Remember this, if it was meant for you, you wouldn't have lost it. If God crafted that man or woman to be there for you, you wouldn't have lost it. You wouldn't have lost them.
If that job was a part of your destiny and you were supposed to retire at that job and you were supposed to be the head of that company, you wouldn't have lost it. God does not take away these things to torture you. Sometimes we view these failures that we will let's just say we view these things that we view as failures when really they're blessings in disguise. You'd be surprised how often I hear and I personally, personally experienced a failed relationship and you go back over it and you realize that God saved you from something.
And you really look back into that situation. Think about how your instinct was speaking to you, how your instinct was telling you at times that it wasn't right and somehow or another God found a way to snatch you out of it. This isn't a failure. That's a blessing in disguise.
How about how about that job or that goal or that opportunity that fell through? You put so much energy and time into it and it still fell through. Think about that. Really take time to evaluate these situations.
It's always signs. Like the good Lord gives us that proves that that was it wasn't meant for you. That opportunity wasn't for you. Sometimes it's the failed opportunities that come our way that push us harder into the right opportunity.
Sometimes we need that closed door. Sometimes we need that closed opportunity because we're barking up the wrong tree. And although it sounds good and it looks good, God is saying, honey, you do not know what lies on the other side. The failure is all about how you view it.
How do you view these missed opportunities? How do you view these breakups? How do you view these layoffs? How do you view it?
It's all about your viewpoint. You can take that term failure and you can turn it into something positive for your life. You can say this failure is only going to teach me more. It's only going to show me how much I have in me to keep going.
Many people fail their way to success. Many people love the wrong person quite a few times if you ask me until you find that ideal person that you're looking for. Don't get stuck sitting and soaking over those negative thoughts that oftentimes failed situations burning. Don't get stuck there.
Think about all there is to come. And all there is that guy is probably saving you from. So I thank you guys for joining me yet again another week. I am truly appreciative to all of you guys who are sitting out there each and every week listening to the podcast.
I'm truly thankful for you guys. You guys keep me going. You keep me motivated to post each and every single week. I truly, truly love you guys.
And I just want to close out and pray your father guy. We just thank you for allowing us to come together another week by the guy. We pray for the world right now, Father God. All the issues in politics, I pray for peace over it.
All the issues with health and the disease and viruses going on in society. We pray peace over the situation. We pray calmness. Not only in our lives, but in the lives around us while God protect us from enemy.
Allow no weapon formed to prosper. Lift our spirits, Father God. Lift our spirits. And the name of Jesus Christ, we pray.
Amen. Thanks again for tuning in. If you are in need of any type of coaching, if you have any comments, if you just want to shoot me an email and say, Hey girl, go ahead and email me at tntgroveproject at gmail.com. Again, that's the letters T and T.
Growth Project at gmail.com. Have a great week. Bye.