EPISODE · May 22, 2025 · 27 MIN
Ep. 86 - How To Say No, Set Boundaries, and Protect Your Energy.mp3
from Unsolicited Advice with Coach Joey Szolowicz · host Joey Szolowicz
If your calendar is full but your energy is on empty, this one’s for you.In this episode, we’re talking about why saying “no” feels so hard — especially when you’re someone who genuinely wants to help, show up, and do a good job — and how to start doing it in a way that protects your time, energy, and priorities without burning bridges or feeling like the bad guy.We’ll walk through the 5 common traps that make it hard to say no — and how to shift your thinking so you can set boundaries that feel clear, kind, and aligned with your real capacity.You’ll learn:Why “future you” can’t actually handle more than “present you”How to stop saying yes out of guilt or urgencyWhat to do when a request feels flattering, but drainingThe 24-hour rule that helps you pause before overcommittingIf you’ve been running on fumes, trying to do everything for everyone — this is your reminder that no is not a rejection… it’s a strategy. One that gives you room to focus on what actually matters.Aligned Store (this week's winners: pick an item, email me your item, size, and address to [email protected])!:https://aligned-strength-wellness.printify.me/Aligned Membership:https://alignedstrengthandnutrition.com/aligned-membership
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If your calendar is full but your energy is on empty, this one’s for you.In this episode, we’re talking about why saying “no” feels so hard — especially when you’re someone who genuinely wants to help, show up, and do a good job — and how to start doing it in a way that protects your time, energy, and priorities without burning bridges or feeling like the bad guy.We’ll walk through the 5 common traps that make it hard to say no — and how to shift your thinking so you can set boundaries that feel clear, kind, and aligned with your real capacity.You’ll learn:Why “future you” can’t actually handle more than “present you”How to stop saying yes out of guilt or urgencyWhat to do when a request feels flattering, but drainingThe 24-hour rule that helps you pause before overcommittingIf you’ve been running on fumes, trying to do everything for everyone — this is your reminder that no is not a rejection… it’s a strategy. One that gives you room to focus on what actually matters.Aligned Store (this week's winners: pick an item, email me your item, size, and address to [email protected])!:https://aligned-strength-wellness.printify.me/Aligned Membership:https://alignedstrengthandnutrition.com/aligned-membership
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