Ep 9. | It Shouldn’t Hurt: All About Anal

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Ever wondered why anal feels taboo even when it feels good? In this episode of Intimacy Unlocked, Serena Haines dives headfirst into one of her favorite topics: anal sex. From busting myths and releasing shame to covering the step-by-step basics of safe, pleasurable backdoor play, this episode is equal parts permission slip and practical guide. Serena covers:•Why anal sex is misunderstood and often linked to shame•How to start anal play safely and pleasurably•The role of relaxation and the nervous system in anal pleasure•Lube: how much you really need and how to use it effectively•Understanding anal anatomy (two sphincters and their function)•Prep, hygiene, and clean-up tips (including toy safety and condoms)•Prostate play and why straight men should care•How to talk to your partner about anal (plus safe words)•Feeling guilt around receiving but not giving anal•Unlearning shame and internalized stigma•Why anal sex can feel more intimate than vaginal sex•Listener questions about bisexuality, fantasy, and boundariesLearn more about The Pleasure Pods—the new luxury in intimate care at thepleasurepods.com/Shop The Pleasure Pods on Amazon Canada.Have a juicy confession or burning question?Submit it through our anonymous form or send in a voicemail!Serena Haines is an intimacy & relationship expert and certified sexologist, helping individuals and couples learn, connect, and nurture their sexuality.Learn more about her services at https://www.serenahaines.com/Follow Serena on Instagram at @serena_hainesFollow Intimacy Unlocked Podcast on Instagram at @intimacyunlockedpod Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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