E7 I Stop Forgiving Before You’re Ready

Have you ever said "I forgive you" just to be the "bigger person," while your heart was still screaming in pain?In this episode, we’re stopping the act. Most of us have been taught that "godly" means being a doormat, but the Kingdom isn't built on suppressed resentment—it’s built on Restoration. Before you can truly forgive, you have to do the gritty, honest work of counting the cost.Join Natalie Trotman, Christian Mental Health Coach, as she dives into the "Stop-Work Order" on performative forgiveness. Learn why your anger is a diagnostic tool, how to move from being a doormat to a Kingdom Force, and get the step-by-step instructions for a tool that will help you stop faking peace and start finding real restoration.In this episode, we cover:Why "polite" forgiveness is actually damaging your nervous system.The difference between a spiritual makeover and functional Restoration (Joel 2:25).How to identify your "debtors" without the religious guilt.Reclaiming your seat at the table (Psalm 23:5).