EP112-如果分開可以是坦然的幸福，為什麼一定要委曲求全的相守？

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#走下去不是只有一條路 💕分開也可以是種坦然的幸福 https://youtu.be/MTmJgUvIcjQ 🤔為什麼非得委曲求全的相守 https://lingmami.com/blog/post/podcast-ep112 專家不一定完美無缺有時讓人尊敬的是勇敢面對的坦然🫡 張兆志和許允樂攜手6年的婚姻💍 因為“孩子👶”～女方想生、男方不想一直期待對方或自己會改變心意的兩人因為多年無法達成共識如今以和平分手落幕🥲 🤷有人說… 👉想不想生小孩不是一開始就知道了嗎？ 👉為什麼要浪費時間浪費生命？ 👉磨合不是一開始甚至婚前就應該做好嗎？但就像是嫁給軍人⚔️ 你沒親身經歷過怎麼會知道軍眷到底有多苦🥺？就像是生兒育女🤱 你沒親身體會過怎麼會知道照顧小孩到底可以多厭世😱？每個人都會有所期待尤其當眼前的這個人什麼都好😍 就只是想不想要孩子的想法和自己不同如果是你不會期盼著對方或自己因為時間⏳而改變嗎？但幸福從來都不應該是容忍勉強🙅 就算有了改變也應該是發自內心🥰 才不會這樣… 👉「你看～都是因為你要生！我就說了我不想生！」 👉「你看～都是因為你不生！我就說了我很想生！」假使一方妥協了、忍耐了、勉強了😫 未來如果意外的開心也就罷了但如果沒有呢？如果生活變糟📉、關係有了裂縫呢？最遺憾的會是兩人😢 最無辜的會是孩子😭 接著走歪的家庭關係和教育就有可能讓社會上其他家庭跟著倒霉😨 就像是另一起讓我難過到不想聊的新聞那樣… 仔細想一下～ ❓交往如果沒有比單身好，為什麼要在一起？ ❓結婚如果沒有比交往好，為什麼要結婚？ ❓生小孩如果沒有比兩人世界好，為什麼要生？ ❓生兩個如果沒有比一個好，為什麼要再生？以此類推～下一階段如果沒有比較好那就不會是人生非得要的選擇😤 兩人一起長久走下去的關鍵在於～價值觀🧠 換位思考的尊重🤗 以及發自內心的愛😘 但如果努力過後真的無法有時候分開，也可以是一種幸福❤️ 🎙 EP112-如果分開可以是坦然的幸福，為什麼一定要委曲求全的相守？ ✅Apple Podcast：https://[reurl.cc/8037Yb]()">reurl.cc/8037Yb ✅Google Podcast：https://[reurl.cc/L4bDe9]()">reurl.cc/L4bDe9 ✅KKBOX Podcast：https://[reurl.cc/qrg3kg]()">reurl.cc/qrg3kg ✅SoundOn：https://[sndn.link/00ff77/7oMKZe]()">sndn.link/00ff77/7oMKZe ✅Spotify：https://[reurl.cc/N4rDEn]()">reurl.cc/N4rDEn #林林夫妻播客第112集 #112年最後一支Podcast #我們明年見 -- Hosting provided by SoundOn

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#走下去不是只有一條路 💕分開也可以是種坦然的幸福 https://youtu.be/MTmJgUvIcjQ 🤔為什麼非得委曲求全的相守 https://lingmami.com/blog/post/podcast-ep112 專家不一定完美無缺有時讓人尊敬的是勇敢面對的坦然🫡 張兆志和許允樂攜手6年的婚姻💍 因為“孩子👶”～女方想生、男方不想一直期待對方或自己會改變心意的兩人因為多年無法達成共識如今以和平分手落幕🥲 🤷有人說…...

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