EP274 – Why We Sabotage Ourselves When Life Finally Gets Good | Grow With Me

You finally get what you've been working for . . . and suddenly you're sabotaging it.Here's why your nervous system does this, and what to do instead.In this Grow With Me episode, Raniera builds on the "full cup" kōrero from the last solo episode, unpacking why we self-sabotage the moment life starts to feel good — in relationships, in mahi, in finances, in our own wellbeing. Drawing on a Tony Robbins framework of operating at different "degrees," this episode is about recognising the discomfort of a new, better baseline for what it actually is: your nervous system trying to pull you back to what's familiar, not what's true.Episode Breakdown:✨ Why introducing a good habit and removing a bad one changes everything✨ The nervous system's role in keeping you stuck in familiar (even unhealthy) patterns✨ How self-sabotage shows up in relationships, mahi, and money✨ The Tony Robbins "20 degrees vs 26 degrees" identity framework✨ Why change without expanding your identity is only ever temporary✨ Learning to rest in — not rush through — a season of abundanceLink Section🌱 Join the Planting Seeds Community: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.skool.com/seeds-of-self⁠⁠⁠⁠🌱 Bio Gold (Natural Testosterone Booster for Tāne) — code 'SEEDS15':⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://biogoldnz.com/discount/SEEDS1...🌱 Rerehua Boutique – code 'SEEDS': ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://rerehuaboutique.com