EP32: Taking Accountability

Taking self-accountability and recognizing the wrongs during a marriage is a courageous and transformative process. It involves a deep and honest look within, acknowledging one's own mistakes, behaviors, and shortcomings that may have contributed to marital issues. This introspection is not about assigning blame but about understanding the dynamics of the relationship and one's role in it. When we recognized our own wrongdoings rather than placing blame on our partner, it is an acknowledgment that, in any relationship, both individuals contribute to its dynamics, whether positive or negative. By focusing on our own actions, behaviors, and choices, we open the door to self-improvement, personal growth, and the potential for healthier relationships. In this exploration of taking responsibility for our actions within a marriage, we delve into the strength of self-awareness and the capacity to create positive change by addressing our own shortcomings and behaviors. Instead of being the victim in my last relationship, I have to take a step back, reflect, and ask myself, what those things I’ve done or have said that resulted the end of the relationship? To find out more on the things Ive learned and discovered after my divorce, keep listening because you don’t want to miss this episode. Things I did that ended my previous relationship: I suck at communication Shutting down/ avoiding conflicts Upbringing in culture: learn to cater to husband Seeking outside of help is not normal Too masculine, less feminine People pleasing Stay love and bless! ❤️Yours Druelee