EPISODE · Jun 9, 2026 · 17 MIN
EP42: The Cost of Staying the Same | Secondary Gain & The Process of Change
from What I Didn't Know: Building the Life You Recovered For · host Netanya Allyson
"What are you getting out of staying stuck?"It’s an uncomfortable question, but it’s the one that finally forced me to look at my own blind spots. Shifting out of old habits and deeply ingrained behaviors requires a massive internal lift, and it rarely happens overnight.Inside the episode:The Reality of Growth: We are walking through the entire messy, non-linear process of change—from the places we’re in denial and the paralysis of over-analysis, to taking action and navigating the inevitable setbacks of relapse.A Lesson from the Past: I share a personal story from my education days about recognizing when a space is no longer serving you.The Cost of "Secondary Gain": Learn how to spot the hidden, backhanded benefits our subconscious gets from keeping us exactly where we are.If you’re ready to stop focusing on the immediate discomfort of changing and start looking at the long-term cost of staying the same, this latest episode is for you.More episodes: netanyaallyson.com
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"What are you getting out of staying stuck?" It’s an uncomfortable question, but it’s the one that finally forced me to look at my own blind spots. Shifting out of old habits and deeply ingrained behaviors requires a massive internal lift, and it rarely happens overnight. Inside the episode: The Reality of Growth: We are walking through the entire messy, non-linear process of change—from the places we’re in denial and the paralysis of over-analysis, to taking action and navigating the inevita...
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