EP45: Jaiya on Birth, Motherhood, and Erotic Blueprints

Jaiya, a sexological body-worker, educator, and prolific author, discusses the Erotic Blueprint types and the role that they play in our relationships. In this episode, Jaiya shares how own blueprint has shifted throughout her life and details the different characteristics of each of the five blueprint types. What You'll Hear: What inspired her work on postpartum health How her sexuality shifted after becoming a mom What the Erotic Blueprints are and why they're important How she helps individuals understand, feed, and heal their blueprints through the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course What She Shares: The pelvic floor trauma she endured while giving birth to her son  Pressure within the sex-positive community for postpartum sex  "We have multiple sexualities."  Men and postpartum sexuality What led to her first session with Dr. Ellen Heed  How her Erotic Blueprint changed after having her son  What she learned from her surveys with postpartum women  Talking about sex in contemporary society The difference between her and her partner's sexuality postpartum  Finally having sex for pleasure The five Erotic Blueprints  Why boundaries are so difficult for Energetics The Sensual's "superpower"  Not understanding our partner's Erotic Blueprint can lead to "consent coercion"  Culture and Sexuals' Erotic Blueprint  Your Erotic Blueprint only shows you where you're limited  Psychological vs. Sensation-Based  How the Kink Realm helped her find her voice and heal  Erotic Blueprints give us a language to understand our ever-changing sexual maps  Shape-Shifters, erotic sophistication, and capacity for pleasure  Where you can find out more about the Erotic Blueprints and how to find out your own type  Her Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough Course How our sexuality as a culture is changing  https://missjaiya.com/