Skip to content
Episode 025: Logical Vs. Relational Consequences episode artwork

Aug 16, 2016 19 min

Episode 025: Logical Vs. Relational Consequences

from Today's Teenager

In this week's episode, Roy explores the differences between logical and relational consequences in disciplining teenagers. While both types of consequences modify behavior, one is ultimately destructive and leads to shame. This shame and its effects are deep and lasting and can result in emotionally and psychologically damaged teens. Roy explains the differences between healthy guilt and shame, which can deeply affect a young person's sense of value and worth. Roy then offers five tips for administering logical consequences and avoiding emotional and relational consequences. Roy's tips help parents and other adults working with young people to be mindful of their own emotional states in light of a teen's violation of trust and to lovingly yet effectively resolve the situation. To get Roy's newest ebook "Little Book of Questions that Really Get Teens Talking" go to todaysteenager.com and sign up or email Roy at [email protected]. Today's Teenager podcast is produced for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to nor should it be used as a replacement for professional counseling.

Episode details come from the podcast's RSS feed.

Embed this episode

Ready to play

Episode 025: Logical Vs. Relational Consequences

0:00 19:01

No transcript yet.

Requests help us decide what to transcribe next.

Frequently asked questions

How long is this episode of Today's Teenager?

This episode is 19 minutes long.

When was this Today's Teenager episode published?

This episode was published on August 16, 2016.

Can I download this Today's Teenager episode?

Yes. Use the download control on the episode player to save the publisher-provided media file.