Episode 03: Juvenile Justice Association of Michigan || What I Know Now - A Delta Project Podcast

In "What I Know Now" Episode 3, hosts Cole and Joel delve into profound conversations about parenting, childhood trauma, and breaking societal norms. Cole opens up about his transformative journey from a 27-year-old foster parent to a father figure for eight sons, including adopted and biological, and how he navigated the challenges of parenting in the cross-systems. They discuss the importance of black and brown men leading conversations in the parenting sphere. They also stress the need for understanding the "why" behind trauma-induced behaviors instead of impulsive reactions. Further, Cole shares his remarkable work in the juvenile justice system in Sacramento and Michigan, and his innovative venture of a comic book series titled ‘The Fatherhood’ aimed to redefine fatherhood in challenging situations. Plus, they spotlight the untapped superpower of fathers: their presence and normalize expressing emotions. If you're intrigued by stories of personal growth, unconventional fatherhood, and working towards a more equitable juvenile justice system, this is an episode you wouldn't want to miss! 01:48 Working with parents in juvenile justice. 04:41 Biases hinder relationship between parents and POs. 07:58 Probation officer vital for child's rehabilitation. 10:16 Create space for voice, not just talking. 15:34 Relationships are key, but can be harmful. 17:22 Connecting with organization supporting kids, families & Hope 20:28 Teenager speaks out about experiences in foster care. 23:50 Parenting: Understanding trauma, behavior, and control. 26:43 Humanizing work by helping families find purpose. 32:51 Father's superpower: showing love and affection. 34:35 Father's presence is the ultimate gift.