Episode 089: 1965-05-11 | Fish, Pharmaceuticals, & Phil Pt. 3

In this episode of Dearest Suzie, Popi writes from an unusually quiet night in Vinh Long. It’s May 11, 1965, and for once, he’s alone on base. While the rest of his unit is off at Ben Hoa responding to an attack that left five Americans dead, Popi remains behind after a supply run to Saigon, teaching new pilots and preparing for a farewell party. The tone is calm, even domestic—he talks about gifts sent, letters received, and his pride in helping a new pilot pass his check ride. But the wider context of the war creeps in as he casually mentions the day's casualties and an increasingly active Viet Cong, reminding us how quickly things can shift in Vietnam. Alongside the letter, we continue with part three of Fish, Pharmaceuticals, & Phil, a personal narrative that examines the collapse of a family’s stability and the deep flaws in Florida’s child welfare system. Today’s installment focuses on the children’s fathers—each one gone, deadbeat, or deeply troubled—and the profound impact their absence has on the kids now scattered across foster homes and group facilities. With each twist, the story reveals a painful intersection between systemic failure and personal trauma, offering a sobering look at how broken lives are often passed down, compounded by bureaucracy, poverty, and neglect. What’s Covered: Bill’s May 11 letter from Vietnam, written while alone on base Reflections on training new pilots and preparing for a farewell party Casual mention of escalating conflict and American casualties Part three of Fish, Pharmaceuticals, & Phil: absent fathers, broken systems, and Florida’s complex child welfare bureaucracy 📷 Featured Photo: A group of new arrivals walking down the main avenue of the base, carrying large sacks over their shoulders. Perhaps they’re bringing in laundry. Perhaps everything they own. 🔔 If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe! I’ll be posting new episodes regularly, sharing letters and stories from exactly 60 years ago, as written by my grandfather. Follow Dearest Suzie on social media: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1GwqPyO061k0iaQRKwfjoQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearestsuziepodcast/ X: https://x.com/DearestSuziePod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dearestsuziepodcast 📧 Have a story to share or want to reach out? Email me at [email protected] — I’d love to hear from you! VietnamWar #DearestSuzie #LettersFromVietnam #MilitaryHistory #FamilySeparation #FosterCareCrisis #ChildWelfare #InheritTheStories #1965Vietnam #WarLetters #OralHistory #SocialSystems #Podcast