Episode 1: I See You

When your caregiving journey ends, the world expects you to simply move on. On the outside, you’re doing all the things that have to be done—paying bills, managing the family, and going through the motions. But on the inside, does the spark that made you you feel completely gone? In this very first official episode of Nobody Told Me This Part, host Shelby DellaRosa shares her personal story of caregiving for her husband, Rich, for 15 years, and the "summer on the couch" that followed his passing. Shelby dives gently into the profound identity shift that happens when you are no longer a caregiver, why a Buffy the Vampire Slayer song perfectly captures this feeling, and why you might be feeling a confusing mix of grief, guilt, and even quiet relief. If you feel hollow or lost today, please know: you are seen, you are understood, and you do not have to figure out what comes next alone. If you'd like to receive a weekly(ish) encouraging email from me, please just click here.