Episode 1: Rest in Peace...NIck Carthan

Send us Fan MailWelcome to the very first episode of But Did You Die Though: Confessions of a Widow. I’m your host, Carmen Barton — comedian, TV personality, and now your podcast guide through a mix of humor, real-life stories, and heartfelt reflections.In this debut episode, I honor my late husband, Anthony Nicholas “Nick” Carthan, on the 4-year anniversary of his passing. Recorded in the very space he used for his own creative work, I share stories, laughs, and a glimpse into what’s ahead for this show. From my journey as a widow to hilarious moments from our life together, you’ll hear how grief and comedy can coexist — and why we’re just getting started.🗒️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:The Story Behind the Mic — My background in stand-up comedy, TV appearances, and why this podcast exists.Remembering Nick Carthan — The man behind the name, his creative spirit, and the memories that keep me going.A Sneak Peek at the Truth — Why I’m saving the full story of his passing for a special multi-part series later in the season.Report Card Session - 4Cs & 2Fs: Cooking — From St. Louis-style fried rice in a pineapple bowl to tacos (and a little Chipotle finesse).Comical Confession — The time I accidentally (on purpose) set off two fire alarms at work… and blamed it on Barbara.How You Can Join the DYD Crew — Submit your own comical confession or grief story for a chance to win prizes from my closet, DYD merch, and more.📨 Participate & Win:Send your Comical Confession or grief story to: [email protected] me on Instagram: @CarmenBartonSubscribe on YouTube: Carmen Barton Comedy https://www.youtube.com/@CarmenBartonComedy 📌 Mentioned in This Episode:BET’s “Ms. Pat Settles It” – Watch on BETMartin Lawrence Presents: 1st Amendment Stand Up – Bounce TVByron Allen’s Comics Unleashed 🎤 About Carmen BartonCarmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality whose quick wit and relatable storytelling have taken her from the stages of Martin Lawrence Presents: 1st Amendment Stand Up to her current role as a resident juror on BET’s hit courtroom comedy Ms. Pat Settles It. A widow and mother of three, Carmen turns life’s toughest moments into laugh-out-loud stories — including in her Amazon best-selling book And Then She Bounced Back.She’s performed for audiences worldwide — from U.S. comedy clubs to military bases in Kuwait, Iraq, and Afghanistan — and her work can be seen on Tubi, Peacock, Amazon, and AppleTV. With But Did You Die Though: Confessions of a WidowClosing Note: You’ve officially been Carmonized! Tune in next week for more laughter, lessons, and real-life conversations on love, loss, and living out loud. Follow; Like and Subscribe @CarmenComedy in IGFollow Carmen on Instagram: @carmencomedySubscribe on YouTube: Carmen Barton ComedyConnect via Linktree: @carmenbarton🎤 About Carmen BartonCarmen Barton is a stand-up comedian, actress, and TV personality known for her quick wit and authentic storytelling. A widow and mother of three, she fearlessly transforms life’s toughest moments into laughter, whether on stage, on screen, or behind the podcast mic. 🎬 Production Credits:Executive Producer: Carmen BartonSenior Producer: Coach Dagne Barton