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Episode 10 - Can I Keep My Trans Status A Secret - with Dilan Esper

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In our tenth episode, Yvette and Laura debate what responsibilities, and in what circumstances, a stealth or private trans person should be obliged to disclose their history of transition. We are joined by Dilan Esper (x.com/dilanesper), a Los Angeles based lawyer who is trans supportive, but who has challenged the trans community on its stridency in its advocacy We discuss this thorny debate in the context of San Jose State University former volleyball player Brooke Slusser, who described her experience with sharing an apartment with her teammate Blaire Fleming, who she did not realize at the time was trans. Later, co-host Laura muses on her obligations for disclosure as a physician who is often referred female patients who are looking for a woman physician

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