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EPISODE · Mar 31, 2026 · 41 MIN

Episode 103: Practice Who You're Becoming by Building New Patterns

from Spilt: A Podcast with Charlene and Tonya · host Tonya and Charlene

Unlearning is only half the work. The other half is building something steadier in its place.In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to create new patterns without pressure or perfection. We explore how the nervous system learns safety through repetition, why small changes matter more than dramatic ones, and how micro-choices build self-trust over time.Growth doesn’t require a personality overhaul. It requires practice. Part of our Season 6 theme, Growing Through It, this episode invites you to move forward gently — one steady choice at a time.Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠mailto:[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ if you have comments, questions, or ideas about future episodes. Be sure to follow, rate, and review to stay informed about future episodes. You can find us on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/spilt.apodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/spilt.podcast/Disclaimer: The views expressed are solely those of the hosts and should not be considered medical or mental health advice.

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Unlearning is only half the work. The other half is building something steadier in its place.In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to create new patterns without pressure or perfection. We explore how the nervous system learns safety...

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