Episode 112: Navigating Trans Joy: Bernie Wagenblast on Courage and Identity

When you grow up without the internet—or the language—to describe your identity, how do you navigate your journey? In this candid conversation, Zach Randles-Friedman speaks with Bernie Wagenblast—the long-time transportation voice of the NYC area—who shares her fascinating journey from searching library indexes in the 1970s to calling a local trans teacher from a payphone, and coming out publicly in her 60s. Bernie reflects on decades spent living as a 'straight guy,' and the challenges and triumphs of social transition. She discusses the nerves of traveling post-transition, the importance of visibility, and why everyday kindness is essential. Her powerful mantra—don’t let anyone steal your trans joy—offers practical empathy for allies eager to learn. It’s a warm, insightful story about authenticity, courage, and the importance of being true to oneself at any age. Follow Bernie on IG: https://www.instagram.com/cranford_radioListen to Bernie's Podcast: https://cranfordradio.wordpress.com/ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Podcast song by SIXFOOT 5: https://www.sixfoot5prod.com Apple: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/sixfoot-5/1551774977 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5rHMzoU0G0fLhaBsrQiOOY?si=laSZ5hiKTYubJJyhrzf2JQ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.