Episode 114 | 30岁后的人生，从怕死开始？Life After 30: Does It Start With Fearing Death?

Today, Ren Fei and I are talking about a heavy but important topic: our anxieties about death. We discuss losing loved ones and our own mortality as we get older. Do you also have these existential fears?If this podcast is helpful for you and you want to show your support, you can buy me a coffee here! I really appreciate your support!https://buymeacoffee.com/xinqing免费的全文内容（汉字，拼音，英语翻译）在这里. Free transcript of the entire podcast with characters, pinyin and English translation: https://www.yaya.press/doc/9718667d-1d0a-423c-97ba-7ab14869fd65====================沉重 | chénzhòng | heavy; serious恐惧 | kǒngjù | fear; dread焦虑 | jiāolǜ | anxiety; anxious步入 | bùrù | to step into; to enter (an age, a stage)祖父祖母 | zǔfù zǔmǔ | grandparents去世 | qùshì | to pass away; to die (euphemism)在世 | zàishì | to be living; to be alive年迈 | niánmài | old; aged离世 | líshì | to leave the world; to pass away (euphemism)无力 | wúlì | powerless; lacking strength陪伴 | péibàn | to accompany病情 | bìngqíng | patient's condition恶化 | èhuà | to worsen; to deteriorate并发症 | bìngfāzhèng | complication (in medicine)恶劣 | èliè | vile; nasty; of poor quality物理距离 | wùlǐ jùlí | physical distance弱势 | ruòshì | vulnerable; disadvantaged境地 | jìngdì | situation; circumstances格外 | géwài | especially; particularly思念 | sīniàn | to miss; to long for敏感 | mǐngǎn | sensitive多疑 | duōyí | suspicious; paranoid紧密 | jǐnmì | close; intimate中风 | zhòngfēng | stroke (medical condition)不巧 | bùqiǎo | unfortunately; inopportune得知 | dézhī | to find out; to learn of自责 | zìzé | to blame oneself责怪 | zéguài | to blame; to rebuke旅程 | lǚchéng | journey; trip涌上 | yǒngshàng | to surge; to well up出钱出力 | chūqián chūlì | to contribute money and effort创伤 | chuāngshāng | trauma任性 | rènxìng | willful; headstrong; capricious病床 | bìngchuáng | sickbed奄奄一息 | yǎnyǎnyìxī | on the verge of death; at one's last gasp事后 | shìhòu | after the event; afterwards病痛 | bìngtòng | pain and suffering of illness折磨 | zhémó | to torment; to torture底子 | dǐzi | foundation; base (e.g., of one's health)病魔 | bìngmó | serious illness (personified as a demon)斗争 | dòuzhēng | to struggle; to fight遗憾 | yíhàn | regret; pity委婉 | wěiwǎn | euphemistic; tactful过世 | guòshì | to pass away; to die (euphemism)情节 | qíngjié | plot; circumstances深层 | shēncéng | deep layer; deep level觉醒 | juéxǐng | to awaken; awakening (of consciousness)葬礼 | zànglǐ | funeral复活 | fùhuó | to revive; to bring back to life神奇 | shénqí | magical; miraculous疯狂 | fēngkuáng | insane; crazy芭比娃娃 | bābǐ wáwa | Barbie doll议论 | yìlùn | to discuss; to comment on十字路口 | shízì lùkǒu | crossroads; intersection车祸 | chēhuò | car accident下意识 | xià yìshi | subconsciously晕倒 | yūndǎo | to faint; to pass out气血 | qìxuè | Qi and blood (in Traditional Chinese Medicine)不知所措 | bùzhī suǒ cuò | to be at a loss; not know what to do苏醒 | sūxǐng | to wake up; to regain consciousness心理阴影 | xīnlǐ yīnyǐng | psychological trauma; a lingering shadow on one's mind心思细腻 | xīnsi xìnì | thoughtful and meticulous; sensitive悲观 | bēiguān | pessimistic坦诚 | tǎnchéng | frank; honest; open肺炎 | fèiyán | pneumonia报喜不报忧 | bàoxǐ bù bàoyōu | to report good news but not bad news出发点 | chūfādiǎn | starting point; motive瞎着急 | xiāzhāojí | to worry unnecessarily亲子关系 | qīnzǐ guānxì | parent-child relationship向往 | xiàngwǎng | to yearn for; to long for重症病房 | zhòngzhèng bìngfáng | intensive care unit (ICU)监护 | jiānhù | to monitor; guardianship意识 | yìshi | consciousness安乐死 | ānlèsǐ | euthanasia不忍心 | bù rěnxīn | cannot bear to; to not have the heart to拔掉管子 | bádiào guǎnzi | to pull out the tubes (life support)抢救 | qiǎngjiù | to rescue; to save (a life)不孝 | búxiào | unfilial观念 | guānniàn | concept; idea; notion受罪 | shòuzuì | to endure hardship; to suffer孝顺 | xiàoshùn | filial piety; to be filial养育之恩 | yǎngyù zhī ēn | the grace of being raised (by parents)颠簸 | diānbǒ | to jolt; to bump; turbulence地形地势 | dìxíng dìshì | topography; terrain迫降 | pòjiàng | to force a landing惊慌失措 | jīnghuāng shīcuò | panic-stricken; to be scared out of one's wits祈祷 | qídǎo | to pray淡定 | dàndìng | calm; composed后怕 | hòupà | fear after the event; lingering fear坠毁 | zhuìhuǐ | to crash (of a plane)操作失误 | cāozuò shīwù | operational error触动 | chùdòng | to touch somebody emotionally; to stir up feelings绝症 | juézhèng | terminal illness; incurable disease不治之症 | búzhìzhīzhèng | incurable disease丧失 | sàngshī | to lose; to forfeit落差感 | luòchā gǎn | sense of disparity or disappointment白发人送黑发人 | báifàrén sòng hēifàrén | an old person mourning a young person's death (lit. white-haired person sends off black-haired person)棺材 | guāncai | coffin悼念 | dàoniàn | to grieve; to mourn疗愈 | liáoyù | to heal; therapeutic契机 | qìjī | opportunity; turning point遗书 | yíshū | will; suicide note; final letter荒唐 | huāngtáng | absurd; preposterous慰藉 | wèijiè | comfort; consolation驱走厄运 | qūzǒu èyùn | to drive away bad luck Powered by Firstory Hosting