Episode 118 - Kill the Nice Guy w/ Traver Boehm

“When good men get their wants and needs met, the whole world benefits.”Meg’s off holding it down at her feminine leadership retreat, so I’ve got the mic today with one of the most solid brothers in men’s work, Traver Boehm from Man Uncivilized. We went straight in. No tiptoeing, no ‘be nice so everyone’s comfortable’ shit. We’re talking about how men lose themselves trying to please women, how to stop living as a servant to the queen, and what it actually takes to reclaim your mission. We got into the initiations that strip you back to your bones, the kind you don’t buy a ticket for, and why they’re the making of you if you’ve got the balls to stay in them. This is about remembering who the fuck you are and leading your life like it matters.🔥Here’s What We Dive Into:The epidemic of men living as “servants to the queen” instead of sovereign leadersWhy your ego’s dream life might burn you to the ground, and how to find what your soul actually wantsThe terrifying leap from control to purpose, and why it’s magnetic as hellHow to step into your full power without destroying the people around youDark nights of the soul as sacred gateways, not tragediesWhat real initiation looks like (hint: it’s not a weekend workshop)Why the medicine of an initiation has to be integrated back homeThe role of elders and how to rebuild real community around themFinding joy even in the middle of your deepest testsThe dangerous gift: being willing to risk your identity for something biggerAbout Traver BoehmTraver Boehm is the author of the books “Today I Rise”, “Man UNcivilized” and “28 Days In Darkness”. He’s a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement. He’s helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them.He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity.Connect with Traver: @traverboehmWebsite: manuncivilized.com🔥 Love this episode? Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners!🔥 Let's stay connected:Follow Meg: @the.meg.oFollow Jacob: @thejacoboneillFollow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween🔥 Want more?⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie⚡Join CLAIMED: https://meg-oneill.com/claimed-immersion⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date⚡ Join Full Spectrum Woman: https://meg-oneill.com/full-spectrum-woman⚡ Join Jacob in The Gathering of Men: https://theembodiedmaninstitute.org/tgom2025Ready to dive deeper? We work with individuals and couples - slide into our DMs to learn more!