Episode 126 - Pitfalls of moralizing, introduction to nonviolent communication

Nonviolent communication: a language of life By Marshall B. Rosenberghttp://books.google.com/books?id=nY4tDDO93E8C&printsec=frontcover&source=gbs_atb#v=onepage&q&f=falsehttp://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-Language-Marshall-Rosenberg/dp/1892005034/The Objectivist ethics of rational self-interest...http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/self-interest.htmlhttp://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/values.htmlhttp://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/virtue.htmlhttp://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/self-esteem.htmlNonviolent communication upholds needs (or values) as universal; we all have the same needshttp://www.cnvc.org/Training/needs-inventoryHosts Mike and Stephanie invited me as a guest on their podcast to discuss NVChttp://porctherapy.com/2010/11/08/porc-therapy-096-nonviolent-communication/"Blame, insults, put-downs (critical remarks), labels, criticism, comparisons, and diagnoses are all forms of judgment."..."When we judge, as a result, we increase defensiveness and resistance from others. If they do agree to act in harmony with our values because they concur with our analysis of their wrongness, they will likely do so out of fear, guilt, or shame." Marshall RosenbergThe subtle violence of nonviolent language.http://www.thefreelibrary.com/The+subtle+violence+of+nonviolent+language-a0152267677The Basics of Non Violent Communication 1.1http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-129JLTjkQMarshall Rosenberg NVC Role Playhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bydhuxilg_A&NR=1Rosenberg on Nonviolent Communication ~ NVChttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SZ-fUVM4DosSecret of Childhood by Maria Montessorihttp://www.amazon.com/Secret-Childhood-Maria-Montessori/dp/0345305833Nonviolent Communication Part 2 Marshall Rosenberghttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XbgxFgAN7_wrolplay1 nonviolent communicationhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPpQIkaH0WoKelly Bryson, part 3 - nonviolence, revolution and a third way though conflicthttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6IDvlwLXmRUKelly Bryson, part 4, Nonviolent Communicationhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SICCWuunEvYKelly Bryson, part 5, Nonviolent Communicationhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GDQ_rsCWO6oKelly Bryson, part 6, Nonviolent Communicationhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O6Ejfw0MI_sUnconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohnhttp://www.unconditionalparenting.com/up/Compassionate Communication By Marshall Rosenberghttp://www.nwcompass.org/compassionate_communication.htmlNVC never fails if you stay with the process...from a connection, creativity arises, and a synergistic solution will always present itself, without fail! Feel free to contact me for a counseling session at [email protected] bumper music "Bring Me Back To Life" by Evanescencehttp://www.evanescence.com/ to comment, please go to http://completeliberty.com/magazine/category/91697