Episode 126: The Communication Mistakes Couples Don’t Realize They’re Making — And How to Fix Them

Send a textIf you’ve ever found yourself in a conversation with your spouse thinking, “How did we get here? We were talking about the dishes ten minutes ago…”, this episode is for you.In today’s conversation, I sit down with Raffi Bilek, a long-time couples therapist, communication expert, and the kind of guest who brings both humor and hard-earned wisdom to the table.Raffi has spent over a decade helping couples move from confusion to clarity, from defensiveness to connection, and from emotional shutdown to genuine teamwork. What makes his work so refreshing is that he doesn’t just teach communication—he lives it. The same principles he uses in his counseling sessions are the ones he and his wife use in their own marriage, which he calls “the best part of my life.”Raffi brings a blend of insight, honesty, and levity that makes even the hard topics feel approachable. Whether you’re navigating communication struggles, feeling unheard, or just want to grow closer to your spouse, this episode will leave you with tangible steps to transform the way you talk—and listen.If communication has ever been a stumbling block in your marriage, this conversation is a breath of fresh air and a practical roadmap forward.Connect with Raffi at: https://www.thecommunicationbook.com/Support the showTo submit your relationship question for Q & A episodes, just email me: [email protected]. And, if you're ready to rebuild your marriage from the inside out, then check out my 6-month intensive marriage recovery program,s designed to help you heal deeply, communicate better, and reconnect emotionally and spiritually. Learn more at https://debbiecaudle.com/marriageinbloom