Episode 126 - The Reference System: Outdated, Misused, or Necessary?

In this episode, Vivian is joined by returning guest Ms. Ellis Hendrix for a timely and thought-provoking conversation sparked by Ellis’ recent post on X. Together, the ladies revisit one of the industry’s most debated topics: screening through the reference system. Is it outdated? Is participation an obligation — or a personal choice? They break down the realities of modern vetting and share practical guidance for both clients and companions, including the do’s and don’ts of requesting a reference with respect, boundaries, and intention. The conversation also opens into a candid reflection on goals, growth, and the vision both women have for 2026. Thank you for tuning in to the final episode of 2025. See you in the new year! Listen to the episode on screening (68) here Find all of Ms. Hendrix’s links here Show Sponsor: CompanionTax.com 💖 Support the show on Patreon for just $1/month: patreon.com/tsegp