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EPISODE · May 8, 2025 · 8 MIN

Episode 13: Rules I Used to Follow in Dating—And Why I Don’t Anymore

from Heart First, Head Later: Love Hard. Lust Harder. · host Becky

Once upon a time, I played by the dating rulebook—don’t text first, wait three dates for sex, never be “too available.” Sound familiar? In this episode, I’m unpacking the rules I used to follow, the fear that kept me there, and the freedom I found in letting them go. From rewriting what it means to show interest to dating with intention instead of strategy, we’re diving into how real connection starts when you stop performing and start trusting yourself. Consider this your permission slip to play by your own rules.

Once upon a time, I played by the dating rulebook—don’t text first, wait three dates for sex, never be “too available.” Sound familiar? In this episode, I’m unpacking the rules I used to follow, the fear that kept me there, and the freedom I found in letting them go. From rewriting what it means to show interest to dating with intention instead of strategy, we’re diving into how real connection starts when you stop performing and start trusting yourself. Consider this your permission slip to play by your own rules.

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Once upon a time, I played by the dating rulebook—don’t text first, wait three dates for sex, never be “too available.” Sound familiar? In this episode, I’m unpacking the rules I used to follow, the fear that kept me there, and the freedom I found...

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