Episode 13: The Life of an Intimacy Coordinator/Actor/Author (with Aryn Mott)

I learned SO MUCH durning this chat wiht the incredible Aryn Mott! We talk all about their artistic journey from performing arts school to becoming an intimacy coordinator. They discuss the importance of a supportive environment on set and the significance of mental health and consent in performance. Aryn also reflects on their experiences working on the Emmy-winning series Shogun, highlighting the need for emotional safety and the unique experience of exploring the work through the leans of a culture new to them.  In this conversation, we discuss their journey as an intimacy coordinator and actor and Aryn shares insights on the tools and techniques used in intimacy coordination, the balance between acting and coordinating, and their experience becoming a published author. Throughout this chat, Aryn also reflects on the lessons learned from auditions and the significance of collaboration and curiosity in storytelling.Chapters00:00Artistic Beginnings and Early Influences02:53Navigating Education and Personal Growth05:55The Gap Year: Travel and Self-Discovery08:52Lessons from Academia: Finding One's Voice11:51Transitioning to Intimacy Coordination14:48Understanding the Role of an Intimacy Coordinator22:19The Role of Intimacy Coordination27:02Importance of Intimacy Coordination on Set31:55Mental Health in Performance39:18Insights from Shogun Production45:22Diving into Language and Culture50:40What's in the Intimacy Coordinator's Kit?57:29Mental Health Toolkit for Performers01:00:26Balancing Acting and Intimacy Coordination01:05:46The Importance of Curiosity in Collaboration01:06:50Understanding the Psychological Impact of Performance01:08:02Regulatory Tools for Actors on Set01:09:30Aryn's Social Media and Sharing Knowledge01:13:24Introducing Aryn's Book - 'Performing with Resilience' 01:19:47This One Time: A Transformative Audition Experience