Episode 136 - Nonviolent communication reexamined

Guest Oliver Heuler from Germany http://heuler.de/ and http://voluntarist.de/ (Google Chrome browser can translate into English on the fly:)Re: FDR 1007: A third way http://board.freedomainradio.com/forums/p/14090/119868.aspx Oliver's handiwork...Obama will resign as president http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NxjkatKuwRM http://www.freedomainradio.com/Traffic_Jams/FDR_1837_nonviolent_communication_Roundtable.mp3http://www.freedomainradio.com/Traffic_Jams/FDR_1836_NVC_Intro.mp3Nonviolent communication simply means connecting with feelings and needsNeeds for safety, security, and comfort need not come at the expense of needs for justice, autonomy, independence, choice, and respect Two invaluable parenting books:Respectful Parents, Respectful Kids: 7 Keys to Turn Family Conflict into Cooperation by Sura Hart and Victoria Kindle Hodson http://www.nonviolentcommunication.com/store/product_info.php?products_id=48andUnconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn http://www.unconditionalparenting.com/up/No Contest: The Case Against Competition by Alfie Kohnhttp://www.alfiekohn.org/books/nc.htmWhen Competition Leads To Conflict (audio interview w/ Kohn)http://www.goodradioshows.org/peaceTalksL49.htmSpirituality, rationally understood, pertains to a heightened awareness of one's internal and external worldsPrimitive cultures fostered conformity to the tribe - http://www.logicallearning.net/libearlyhumancon.htmlYour interpretations and assessments of past experiences tend to be more important than those past experiences themselvesChange your thoughts and change your feelingshttp://www.feelinggood.com/Value judgments can be distinguished from moral judgments, and there's nothing more foundational than connecting the former with feelings and needshttp://www.cnvc.org/Training/feelings-inventoryhttp://www.cnvc.org/Training/needs-inventoryMax-Neef on Human Needs and Human-scale Development - http://www.rainforestinfo.org.au/background/maxneef.htmtranscendence, integration, autonomy, and connection may be our four basic driveshttp://porctherapy.com/2011/02/09/porc-therapy-117-nvc-feedback-ii/ http://freekeene.com/2011/02/21/wmur-reports-on-free-keene/Battleground: Keenehttp://www.wmur.com/video/26935273/detail.htmlbumper music "Carry You" by VNV Nationhttp://www.vnvnation.com/ to comment, please go to http://completeliberty.com/magazine/category/91697