Episode 14: Ethical Non-Monogamy

Our guests' beginnings - Suzannah with a political and military background and Andre with a focus on love and relationships - couldn't be more different, but their meeting transformed their lives. When their traditional marriages ended and forced them to look at how they wanted to live for the first time in a long time, they found each other again and vowed to explore new ways of building relationships and relationship dynamics. Eight years later, Suzannah and Andre work together healing, coaching, and offering guidance to those navigating ethical non-monogamy. In this episode, we explore what ethical non-monogamy means, get tools and practices to navigate it well, and hear how to handle conflict constructively in both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships   Join Suzannah, Andre, and me as we discuss:    What ethical non-monogamy actually is The subjective nature of relationship definitions  Tools and practices to navigate ethical non-monogamy successfully What rom-coms have wrong about jealousy Attachment styles and how they affect the way we relate to each other Using attachment styles to spice up your sex life Owning your emotions and making tough conversations easy to have Scheduling your love life The benefits of broadening your sexual and relationship horizons What to do when jealousy is triggered in ethical non-monogamy   About Suzannah and Andre:   Andre Lazarus and Susannah Rose have been coaches and healers over 10+ years, bringing a unique and open perspective to relationship dynamics and helping people expand their capacity of understanding.  With a combined 16 years of experience in Consensual Non Monogamous (CNM) dynamics, they are bringing their lessons and tools learned over years of navigating open relationship dynamics through a brand new fully loaded online course coming in April! Learn more at comingcloser.carrd.co/ and follow comingcloserwithandre on IG. Connect with Suzannah and Andre:   Website: comingcloser.carrd.co/   Course: opentomore.mykajabi.com/readytoopen Connect with Deborah: Send your sex and relationship questions to [email protected]   For a free Truth and Clarity Session https://www.deborahkat.com/appointments-3     Website: https://www.deborahkat.com/   Email: [email protected]   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.tantrakat   Twitter: https://twitter.com/TantraKat