Episode 14: Walking Around the Hole: Lessons we learn the hard way

In this episode of the Zero10 Podcast, Josi and Andrea dive into the quiet wisdom that comes from falling into life's metaphorical holes — and the empowering shift that happens when you finally learn to walk around them. From moving homes and shifting careers to navigating heartbreak and trusting your intuition, this conversation explores the often messy, deeply human process of growth.They talk about:How to know if you're in a growth loop or just repeating old patternsWhy listening to your body is a compass for aligned decision-makingWhat it really means to trust yourself (and what happens when you don't)The lessons behind hiring, heartbreak, and letting goAnd why we sometimes lose ourselves in relationships trying to “mirror” instead of just beIt’s honest, funny, and full of those “me too” moments. Grab your coffee, your colostrum, or a walk outside—and come along for the conversation.Resources: A Hole In The SidewalkAutobiography in Five Short ChaptersBy Portia NelsonChapter OneI walk down the street.There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.I fall in.I am lost …. I am helpless.It isn’t my fault.It takes forever to find a way out.Chapter TwoI walk down the street.There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.I pretend that I don’t see it.I fall in again.I can’t believe I am in this same place.But, it isn’t my fault.It still takes a long time to get out.Chapter ThreeI walk down the same street.There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.I see it is there.I still fall in … it’s a habit … but, my eyes are open.I know where I am.It is my fault.I get out immediately.Chapter FourI walk down the same street.There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.I walk around it.Chapter FiveI walk down another street.