Episode #143: The Power of Love in Healing from Infidelity

In this episode, Todd Creager therapist and infidelity expert talks about the power of love in healing from infidelity.Todd has been working with thousands of individuals and couples dealing with infidelity for many years and says that love is an important word. When working with clients, Todd tries to go deep with them and understand why the infidelity happened, as opposed to being judgmental. The loving response is to look for what's true and try to understand what led someone to sabotage a relationship they value. He emphasizes that secrets are harmful and can be fatal to relationships, and it is important to understand what led someone to cheat and help them regulate their emotions in ways that aren't harmful to their partner and the relationship. Listen in and discover: Why People are often judgmental of those who cheat, but it's important to understand what drives infidelity.Why Infidelity is an interpersonal crime because it deprives the betrayed partner of important information to make decisions. Why it's important to love the parts of the cheater that want to be loyal and do the right thing, but not encourage the cheating behavior.Why it's important to be curious about what drove the cheating behavior and to find ways to help regulate emotions in ways that aren't harmful to the partner or relationship.AKE ACTION:============Todd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship counseling to couples throughout Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach, and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.HELPFUL STUFF FOR YOU========================✅   Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets✅  10 Steps to Healing From Infidelity:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/infidelity-checklist✅  7 Ways to Divorce-Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYM✅ 7 Signs You Came From a Dysfunctional Family:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/7signs✅ Better Sex in Midlife and Beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlife JOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:=======================✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddcreager✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager✅  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/toddcreager/You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com If this episode resonates with you, please share it with someone who could benefit and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more couples who are ready to transform their lives.Check out my complete program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" for more in-depth guidance: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTodd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  HELPFUL LINKS:Get your FREE copy of Healing Infidelity From The Inside Out https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/heal-infidelity Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYMBe...