Episode 151 | Don’t Settle: Christian Dating & Marriage Advice After 28 Years ft. Pastors Duane & Charlene Henry

What does it really mean to “not settle” in dating? In this honest episode of the Juxtaposition Podcast, Nana and Janet sit down with Pastor Charlene and Pastor Duane, who have been married for 28 years.They share practical Christian dating and marriage advice on recognizing red flags, setting healthy standards without creating unrealistic expectations, pursuing someone with respect, discerning relationships, navigating conflict, and keeping love strong over time. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this conversation offers faith-filled wisdom for building healthy, lasting relationships.Timestamps00:00 — Don’t Settle: What It Really Means01:28 — Meet Pastor Charlene & Pastor Duane03:05 — What They Value After 28 Years of Marriage03:58 — How They Met Through Conversation06:48 — Why People Are Waiting Longer to Marry11:18 — The Biggest Relationship Challenges Couples Face13:26 — Commitment, Timing & Letting Love Develop Naturally16:07 — Pursuing Someone Respectfully19:18 — Healthy Standards vs. Unrealistic Expectations22:18 — Red Flags People Ignore Because of Attraction23:43 — Green Flags in a Healthy Relationship24:41 — Communication: Staying Connected Through Conflict30:34 — “God Told Me You’re My Wife”: Discernment vs. Pressure36:02 — Rejection, Intentional Pursuit & Asking for Counsel41:39 — Contentment in Singleness and Marriage45:58 — Protecting Your Marriage While Doing Ministry Together52:17 — Keeping the Spark Alive After 28 Years55:29 — Why Conflict Isn’t Always a Bad Sign58:16 — Lightning Round: Love, Romance & Everyday Joy01:04:17 — Closing PrayerIf you’re ready to unlearn unhealthy patterns and discover what healthy, God-centered relationships look like, this conversation is for you.It’s Deeper Than That Part 2: Healthy Relationships, God’s Way & Healing📅 Friday, September 4, 2026🕠 Doors Open: 5:30 PM📍 Portico Community Church🎟️ Get your tickets! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/deeper-than-that-20-healthy-relationships-gods-way-tickets-1992324749959?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAcGRvZgJleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA85MzY2MTk3NDMzOTI0NTkAAae3t76_eOU_1igNkjCkPJUdZ75Pa1xKFXH89L8e6hsMQaAguuzVyxZMj3uKUw_aem_UsVYv26l_na4_ETltkUMDA