Episode 168 - What is Your Silence Teaching Your Relationships?

We often think of relationships as something we have: a marriage, a friendship, a relationship with our parents. But relationships are more like living things—they have their own patterns and ecosystems that two nervous systems create together over time. Every conversation shapes them, and every silence does too. In this episode, we're exploring what your silence is teaching your relationships and how speaking more honestly can build the intimacy and connection so many of us want, instead of isolating us from the people we care about. Here’s what I cover:How psychologist Carol Gilligan found that many girls grow up believing they have to choose between having a voice and preserving relationshipsWhy staying quiet was a brilliant survival strategy in childhood but can keep us from building intimacy as adultsHow your silence quietly teaches people what does and does not belong in your relationshipsPractical examples of how speaking up can strengthen relationships instead of damaging themQuestions to help you notice what your relationships have learned from your silence and begin changing the patternReserve your seat for my next workshop: sarafisk.coach/sayitwithclarity Find Sara here:sarafisk.coachpages.sarafisk.coach/difficultconversationsinstagram.com/sarafiskcoachfacebook.com/SaraFiskCoachingtiktok.com/@sarafiskcoachyoutube.com/@sarafiskcoaching1333