Episode 17: An Autistic SLPs Perspective on Social Connection and Advocacy with Rachel Dorsey

In this episode of Tuning in to Development, host Kassie Allison sits down with Rachel Dorsey, an autistic speech-language pathologist in the Greater Boston area, to explore how authentic relationships can foster social confidence, connectedness, and resilience. Rachel shares her approach to creating natural opportunities for social engagement while actively neutralizing shame and affirming neurodivergent identities. She discusses the importance of being a genuinely interested, safe adult who embraces clients’ passions to support self-esteem and meaningful relationships. The conversation also examines how interventions intended to support autistic children may unintentionally communicate that a child needs to be “fixed” while overwhelming the nervous system, and why advocacy often takes the form of quietly building resilience through trust and connection. Finally, Rachel highlights the profound impact of loneliness and the motor-planning challenges that can limit social participation for nonspeaking or unreliably speaking individuals.