Episode 17: Supporting an Emotionally Struggling Grandchild with Calm Presence

Supporting an Emotionally Struggling Grandchild with Calm PresenceGrandma Queen discusses how grandparents can support a grandchild who is struggling emotionally, noting that children often express pain through tears, silence, anger, withdrawal, or behavior changes rather than clear words. She shares stories of a granddaughter affected after her parents separated and a teenage grandson who admitted he felt “tired inside,” emphasizing that healing often begins when a child feels seen and emotionally safe. The episode highlights noticing small shifts, looking beneath behavior to underlying emotions, and offering steady, calm presence instead of rushing to fix or dismiss feelings. Grandma Queen warns against comparison and shaming language, encourages listening more than speaking, creating regular connection, helping children name feelings without shame, and supporting the child’s parents rather than competing. She closes with a prayer for wisdom, gentleness, and healing.00:00 When Grandkids Hurt01:32 A Quiet Crying Moment02:53 Behavior Is Communication05:55 Why Kids Hide Feelings06:51 Noticing Small Changes09:25 One Safe Adult10:25 Calm Presence Over Fixing13:12 Guide Through Emotions15:11 Words That Create Safety16:23 Avoid Comparison17:19 Practical Support Steps19:55 Closing Wisdom and Prayer21:40 Thanks and Next Episode